Learn how to flirt well, then do this from the start in your interactions with women to start the correct tone. Think of flirting like that of playing a game.
Single...flirting...and Loving it
If there is one advantage that single men and women have over the taken ones, then it's most definitely the unlimited flirting. When one is single and unattached, there is no linit to how much and how far he or she flirts.
Flirting is fun so don't take it too seriously. Most of the time, you'll just flirt with someone for a short time and then maybe never talk to them again. If you always go in to flirting expecting to date or even marry the person you're flirting with, you're going to be very disappointed--and you'll probably seem a little desperate. Remember, you're just flirting.
A woman will flirt with anybody in the world as long as other people are looking on.All women flirt, but some are restrained by shyness, and others by sense. Women flirt to keep their stock high, men to get somewhere.
Women know what flirting is, and they react differently to flirting communication than they do to social communication. If you understand flirting, you can have conversations with the opposite sex and have them feeling attracted to you. If you don’t get flirting and how it works, then you will either have to become famous or be absolutely loaded to be successful with girls.
Learn how to flirt well, then do this from the start in your interactions with women to start the correct tone. Think of flirting like that of playing a game. If you start talking to a single girl and say "Hi, you're nice. You probably have a fella, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're not flirting. On the other hand, if you say "Hi, I realize that you're probably very shy due to the fact you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay you some attention..." it's obvious that you're not being serious. This is flirting. By the way, flirting is not simply telling a girl jokes, or trying to be "cute". One of the concepts is Cocky yet Funny which is simply an excellent way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humour. It's so amazing to me how some men don't want to come across as gimps. It's obvious to me that they just don’t get it. So let me explain this in a different way... If you know how to speak the right way, women will respond to you from the beginning with sexual interest and attraction. When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky yet Funny way, a form of adult verbal play, then you reach into a woman's mind, and cause her to go into a type of emotional state. One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.
I think a lot of men give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "No thanks." Instead of just continuing to practice more they take it personally and decide to throw in the towel. But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of adult play you not believe how well women respond to you.
Here's one of my favourite topics to use when flirting, the topic is getting engaged and being in a relationship... Bare in mind, I may have a conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier... Her: "I work in an office, and I get paid well" Me: "Excellent. I like that in a woman. Want to get engaged? We could buy the ring now. I need a woman with money." Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan" Me: "Mind you... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be looked after... you know, keep an eye on the TV etc." Her: "Oh, no... I would not support you." Me: "Then the engagements off. It's over between us.” Her: "You can't break up with me! I'm not even your girlfriend." Me: "That's all the more reason."
...do you get what's going on here?
I'm taking a normal conversation topic about her job and her income and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way hence creating a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting engagement and breaking up over her not supporting me.)
If this doesn't make sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to practice more. Try it with maybe a waitress, bar maid or fellow worker. When you ask for something and she says "I'm sorry, we don't have that on the menu", just say "OK, our relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you." In fact, you can say this in just about any situation when a woman is saying something that you don't like, and it's funny. When you communicate like this, you're flirting and you're initiating a different kind of communication. And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, the Let the games begin! There are many ways to flirt, if a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it. Remember, women can tell straight away whether you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle and charming way then you'll get amazing results.
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